Apr 19, 2019
I want to introduce the idea of immature love and mature
love. Immature love - you just love somebody the way you know
how, the way you feel comfortable loving them. Mature love is
loving somebody the way they need to be loved. You take it upon
yourself because you care about somebody to learn their language
and how to speak it and love them in a way that makes them feel
truly cared for. I actually met a couple in Milan that met in a
nightclub. Their eyes locked across the room and they shared a
passionate kiss on New Year’s Eve. Then discovered that she only
spoke Italian and he only spoke English. They literally had to
learn a new language to be together and they did. They fell in
love, got married and started a family. Mature love, it’s good
for your own growth, it’s good for your partner. It’s how you build
a strong relationship that inspires the other person to grow. And
if you want to be super advanced, don’t make the mistake
of assuming that your partner should just know what you need
to feel loved, be vulnerable enough to request it.
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